is not that first-time sex is always painful, some men and women are discomforted by it. Usually, the first time sex pain is not severe but it causes some medical conditions such as urinary tract infection or an ovarian cyst. The emotional issue also results in painful sex and stress, sexual abuse or guilt leads to painful intercourses.
First-time sexual intercourse leads to pain in the following ways
Women experience pain after her first intercourse in her vagina when her hymen is intact or if her vagina was not lubricated well. Hymen in the vagina is covered by some portion of vaginal openings which women break it by taking part in active sports like horse riding. Vaginal pain also experiences by women during her first intercourse due to the dry vagina. Nervousness or anxiety during the first intercourse may prevent the formation of lubrication fluid in women.
The other problem experienced by women during her first intercourse is a deep abdominal pain. It is the sign that indicates women have the medical condition that is affecting her uterus or ovaries. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (ACOG) says that the deep abdominal pain during the first intercourse results from a tilled uterus, ovarian cysts, or bladder disease, endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory disease.
Men also experience pain after having first intercourses. Peyronie’s disease is the first cause of the sexual pain in men as per the health.com. in this condition plaque or scar is formed in the penis. Pain also caused because of the foreskin of the penis is tight or for some men, it is placed behind the start of the penis. Other causes of pain in the penis are a urinary infection, psoriasis, and dermatitis.
Painful intercourses may occur due to emotional factor. ACOG reported that emotions like guilt and fear do not allow a woman to relax in the bed. If she is not in relaxed mood her vagina becomes tight and fails to lubricate this causes discomfort during intercourse.
Women or men can get treatment for themselves for their pain. The assistant professor of OB-GYN and psychiatry at Northwestern University, Laura Berman recommends that woman should use a water-based lubricant to get relief from their pain. For emotional factors, both should visit counselor or psychologist.